Thousands & millions of years have been devoured by evolution. Thousands of years have gone by in evolving the skill of communicating in various ways. The language the most powerful of them all, to convey our thoughts, emotions, feelings, and knowledge. Language is the sum total of a group of words. Every word in our life and language has a meaning, it has a power, it has rhythm, it has music. When we use these various words our body is affected in three different ways, we release certain energy from within ourselves by pronouncing that word, we absorb the cosmic energy from the sound of that word, and the power caused by the vibration from the sound of that word. And lastly, our mind, body, and soul are stimulated by these words, their power, and their meaning. This same cluster of words can mold our personality, our mind, our thoughts, our emotions, our actions and our behavior. These in turn reflect our inner beauty or our inner ugliness, whichever we choose by the selection of words. When we speak a cluster of peaceful words, our mind is at peace, our thyroid and thymus glands are stimulated, our body is relaxed, mind is relaxed, our facial expressions are beautiful, with a beautiful smile. The same smile radiates our inner beauty from our eyes. The same smile forces others around us to smile. its like lighting a hundred lamps from one switch. On the other hand, our selection of negative words transforms our personality into a violent one. These negative forces changes the voice pattern, stimulate adrenal glands, negative emotions, changes the pattern of breathing, and sometimes dilates the pupils showing ugliness from within, our thought patterns change. Negative emotions erupt like a volcano in our stomach causing acidity in our stomach, and depression in our minds. we breath faster using only 10% of our lung capacity. Retaining more carbon dioxide, causing the heat to dehydrate the body, our body starts aging faster. All these could be the effect of using negative words. We as humans have the capacity to choose the right words, right thoughts, and the right path, by the intelligence bestowed upon us by divine power. The words we speak, and the language we use are the thoughts we convey to others. The process is more of conveying it to ourselves. It is very difficult to comprehend that we need to talk to ourselves. We are worried of what others might think about us. They might think we are mad. Words once voiced are public property, and we lose our control over them It’s very important, that we talk to ourselves before we voice our thoughts through the vocal cords. When we talk to ourselves we don’t need vocal chords. We can talk about anything and everything without being judged, we are the masters of ourselves. These words and thoughts are entirely our personal property. The range of thoughts can be wider; we are not worried about other people understanding or not understanding or misunderstanding. We can talk more logically, and more valuable solutions are derived. It’s a meaningful discussion between the ego and the divine salve. We can overcome misunderstandings and see ourselves with more clarity. We can discover ourselves in the brighter aspect. Discover our weaknesses and find ways to overcome them. Discover the strengths, powers, and meanings of our lives. Self-talk is the real betrothal of ourselves and the divine salve in our physical body and the discovery of our life’s purpose. When we use foul language we convince ourselves about how powerless we are, in the bargain we confuse ourselves and confuse the other person and pull him/her down to the planes of confusion. We also make them doubt their worth along with ours. Let’s use the power of speech more usefully. When we speak the words we use they affect us first and they affect the others. Our own subconscious understands those few words we speak, but does not understand the hidden meaning in them. Just accepts those words, absorbs them, and acts accordingly like a computer. We start thinking like that and we attract attention like that People treat us in that manner and we treat others in that manner. Try taking this mind to meditative mode. Meditation takes this soul to tranquility. It's like calm waters. Tranquil, is beautiful, serene, the abode of beauty, happiness, and oceans of love Negative words are like throwing stones in the calm waters and creating ripples. Anger is like churning the calm waters into a whirlpool that can swallow our very existence and it’s a wasted life, a wasted period in the time machine of this world.